The Old Flame returns

Dear Fiona,
It's me again. I've reconnected with an old flame, oh the excitement of finding him again and finding out that he is still single. We used to hook up with each other twenty years ago when we were both young and single. I really missed him. My husband(whom I still have not divorced) has always accused me of holding a torch for my old flame. I guess he was right because the moment I saw my old flame I knew I still lusted after him. My old flame and I are supposed to hook up again and I was wondering if you think it's a good idea?

Sincerely,
Your Faithful Reader, Desperate


Dear Desperate,
If you have any hope of the old flame connecting with you and making some inroads to a committed relationship, I would get a divorce first, but barring that, I suggest you not expect too much of him and do not sleep with him the on your first date.

Fiona ♣