Dear Fiona,
Oh the rapture! My old flame and I hooked up! yay! I realize now more than ever how much he meant to me, but in the old days he would not commit and when my husband came along it seemed like a good idea at the time to move in with my husband (you know before he was my husband) and leave behind my old flame. I really loved my husband back then. But, my old flame really gets my engine revving and I could not help myself, but I slep with him right away. A girl has to take care of her needs and let me tell you, the old flame does it for me. But, now for some reason my old flame seems too busy to spend any time with me. Why do you think that is?
Truly,
Your Faithful Reader, Desperate
Dear Desperate,
Well, let's start with, did you tell him you weren't officially divorced yet? How about the part about how your husband still thinks you can be convinced to come back home, did you tell him that part? And, of course, you slept with him right away, RIGHT? I recommend you get a divorce and not sleep with anyone on the first through fifth dates whom you want to lure into a committed relationship with you.
Fiona ♣
Sunday, March 28, 2010
The Old Flame returns
Dear Fiona,
It's me again. I've reconnected with an old flame, oh the excitement of finding him again and finding out that he is still single. We used to hook up with each other twenty years ago when we were both young and single. I really missed him. My husband(whom I still have not divorced) has always accused me of holding a torch for my old flame. I guess he was right because the moment I saw my old flame I knew I still lusted after him. My old flame and I are supposed to hook up again and I was wondering if you think it's a good idea?
Sincerely,
Your Faithful Reader, Desperate
Dear Desperate,
If you have any hope of the old flame connecting with you and making some inroads to a committed relationship, I would get a divorce first, but barring that, I suggest you not expect too much of him and do not sleep with him the on your first date.
Fiona ♣
It's me again. I've reconnected with an old flame, oh the excitement of finding him again and finding out that he is still single. We used to hook up with each other twenty years ago when we were both young and single. I really missed him. My husband(whom I still have not divorced) has always accused me of holding a torch for my old flame. I guess he was right because the moment I saw my old flame I knew I still lusted after him. My old flame and I are supposed to hook up again and I was wondering if you think it's a good idea?
Sincerely,
Your Faithful Reader, Desperate
Dear Desperate,
If you have any hope of the old flame connecting with you and making some inroads to a committed relationship, I would get a divorce first, but barring that, I suggest you not expect too much of him and do not sleep with him the on your first date.
Fiona ♣
Why won't my husband get a clue I've left.....
Dear Fiona,
I am still not divorced. My husband keeps calling me and trying to convince me to come back. I gave him 30 days notice when I left him, I figured that was the only fair thing to do. For some reason he keeps insisting that I already have a new boyfriend and I am of loose morals for leaving him. It is true I have been desperate to hook up with a new man but I technically have not found anyone to have me. What can I do to convince my husband that I am not coming back to him? It has been almost a year since I moved out. I keep telling him that I am not coming back and that I am going to divorce him but I have not done any of the paperwork. I just can't seem to find the time to get the papers filled out.
Sincerely,
Your faithful reader, desperate
Dear Desperate,
Let's see....you gave your husband 30 days notice before you left him? How did that go? Nevermind. The answer to your real question is GET A DIVORCE! FILE THE PAPERWORK! The papers will not fill themselves out and walk over to the court house.
Fiona ♣
I am still not divorced. My husband keeps calling me and trying to convince me to come back. I gave him 30 days notice when I left him, I figured that was the only fair thing to do. For some reason he keeps insisting that I already have a new boyfriend and I am of loose morals for leaving him. It is true I have been desperate to hook up with a new man but I technically have not found anyone to have me. What can I do to convince my husband that I am not coming back to him? It has been almost a year since I moved out. I keep telling him that I am not coming back and that I am going to divorce him but I have not done any of the paperwork. I just can't seem to find the time to get the papers filled out.
Sincerely,
Your faithful reader, desperate
Dear Desperate,
Let's see....you gave your husband 30 days notice before you left him? How did that go? Nevermind. The answer to your real question is GET A DIVORCE! FILE THE PAPERWORK! The papers will not fill themselves out and walk over to the court house.
Fiona ♣
Adventures in dating web-sites
Dear Fiona,
I am recently separated from my husband of 20 years and am desperate to get hooked up with a new man, which online dating sites do you recommend?
Desperately,
not really available, but desperate
Dear Not Really Available, but Desperate,
I'm not really sure I would recommend that you begin dating yet until you are officially 'available', by that I mean you have secured a divorce, thus making you available to date. But, since you seem to be desperate to hook up with someone right away, I would NOT recommend Match.com. My friend recently began cyber dating on this site and all of the blokes she attempted to hook up with were not entirely honest on their profiles and never seemed to be serious about dating. However, now that I say that, it could have been her.
Anyway, I would recommend that before you set yourself up on a dating site you find a good solicitor and secure a legal divorce before stumbling into another misguided relationship.
Fiona ♣
I am recently separated from my husband of 20 years and am desperate to get hooked up with a new man, which online dating sites do you recommend?
Desperately,
not really available, but desperate
Dear Not Really Available, but Desperate,
I'm not really sure I would recommend that you begin dating yet until you are officially 'available', by that I mean you have secured a divorce, thus making you available to date. But, since you seem to be desperate to hook up with someone right away, I would NOT recommend Match.com. My friend recently began cyber dating on this site and all of the blokes she attempted to hook up with were not entirely honest on their profiles and never seemed to be serious about dating. However, now that I say that, it could have been her.
Anyway, I would recommend that before you set yourself up on a dating site you find a good solicitor and secure a legal divorce before stumbling into another misguided relationship.
Fiona ♣
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